|Stalin is rumored to have used the top of Hitler's skull as an ash tray.|
My impression of graduates from the United States military academies is that the top 90% of the graduates are dedicated life-long learners.
I attribute it to the fact that the person you measure up second-best might choose to use the top of your skull for an ash tray.
Dino is one of the military academy graduates I had the privilege of working with. Dino took a shine to me and took me under his wing.
One of Dino's passions was anthropology. He believes that there is nothing new under the sun.
I remember him telling me of a utopian, aboriginal society where young men were indentured to old, widowed women. The older women would teach the young men what it took to please a woman. In a similar way, young women were indentured to old widowers for the same purpose.
After the young person's mentor died, they were free to marry somebody much younger than themselves and in turn serve as mentors.
Dino thought this was a spiffy system. Why waste twenty years of your life figuring out by trial-and-error what satisfies your partner when an older mentor can train you in a month?
I cannot remember what aboriginal society that Dino said hosted this custom, but I wonder if it was the native peoples of Australia's Northern territories.
The shingling of cohorts would defeat the normal firewalling between generations seen in more traditional social coupling. That is not to suggest that young women (and men) never dally with rich, older partners. What I am suggesting is that "sugar daddies" and "sugar mamas" are the exception rather than the default pattern.
"The rates of human T-cell leukemia virus type 1, or HTLV-1, infection are exceeding 40% among adults in remote regions of central Australia, with indigenous communities being the hardest hit..." -Source
Perhaps it is part of God's great plan that we not fraternize with older and younger generations so that we can carry our mistakes to the grave without poisoning future generations.
I pray that my biases, mistakes and misadventures die with me. That they not burden my children.